I female 19 have a sneaky link male 26 who have been linking up for a while for the deed he lives in a buffet city it’s very hard for me to see him often. However he always comes down to my city for work. I haven’t told anyone about this man or anything about him due ti the fact that he is 26 and also I lowkey don’t like him. Yes he is my sneaky link but he talks so sexually and often it’s a big turn offf for me which is why I can’t developed feeling for him. I also think his gay on the dl I know he isn’t because that’s a big no in my culture but who knows. I’ve had a crush on his homeboy who is 22 and he is tall and handsome my type my sneaky link is short and has a small dick. I didn’t know they were friends though cause he lives in a different city and his homeboy lives in my city I knew him before my sneaky link as mutual on social media. But I found out he had a girlfriend so I didn’t make a move or anything I was also messing with another one of his homeboys and I think they siblings so it looking quiet. Main point is I hate my sneaky links I tried ending things with home but whenever I do he dismissed it of ignore the messages I tried it in person end it dint work out as well. He guilt trip me saying he will try better, it’s bound to end my family will go insane with me bringing home a 26 year old into my home. His homeboy is single now though for about 3 months now and I was thinking of living my sneaky links for good and going to the homeboy hopefully he doesn’t care about the bro code. Aith for thinking that and wanting to end thing with my sneaky links in general