Title: I [25F] am in a long-term relationship with a devoted partner [26M], but I’ve fallen deeply for someone else [27M] and feel he’s my soulmate.

Body: I’ve been with my boyfriend, [26M], for 8 years. He’s kind, attentive, and has always been there for me. Our relationship has been stable and supportive.

However, a few months ago, I met this man [27M]. What started as a friendship quickly evolved into something deeper. With him,I feel a connection I’ve never experienced before—a sense of being truly seen and understood. He makes me feel alive in ways I didn’t know were possible.

I never intended to hurt my bf of 8 years, and the guilt is overwhelming. But the thought of losing this man feels like losing a part of myself. I believe he’s my soulmate, and the idea of a future without him is heartbreaking.

I’m torn between staying in a safe, long-term relationship and pursuing a love that feels profoundly right. I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I also don’t want to live a life filled with regret.

TL;DR: I’m [25F] in an 8-year relationship with a devoted partner [26M], but I’ve fallen deeply for someone else [27M] who feels like my soulmate. I’m struggling with guilt and confusion, unsure of how to proceed without causing pai