Last year, someone in my past lied about something on a very public platform that had allowed for them to get attention/sympathy. Afterwards, he had added a wishlist to his social media profile, which proved to me that he wanted to take advantage of anyone who believed him.

This person has a habit of manipulating people often, and I had privately called them out for it before. I had also warned several people in person that he was manipulative and potentially dangerous.

I took to social media to call them out for lying, as I didn’t want anyone else to fall victim for their manipulation. People had asked me to create a video showing proof that I had actually known them in the past and that they have showed a history of manipulative behavior, and also a video of proof of the lies. I had provided both.

To this day, I am losing friends and being accused of being obsessed with him. He has people telling me to take accountability for my actions, but the only thing that I did was try to stop others from falling victim to his lies. Any time that someone comments and asks a question about the situation, if I answer their question, he immediately has people make fake Reddit accounts and harass me, claiming that I can’t get over him and that my “fiancé should dump me for being obsessed”. My fiancé knows about the entire situation, and my motivation behind making sure that people know the truth. Am I doing something wrong? Is there any way to take accountability for my actions, even though I’ve made it clear what I’ve done and why I’ve done it?