My (28M) and wife (26F) live in my parents' basement. I've lived my entire life with my parents, and moved into their basement with my wife when we got married a year ago.

I recently got a job in a different city which requires me to be in office 3 days in a week. I could commute 90 minutes from their place, or move 45 minutes away from work. I can't move any closer because then we would be too far from my wife's work.

I told my parents we're planning to move and they flipped out. You should understand we're South Asian, so moving out is a big deal . They're both close to retirement, so I understand why they want me to stay.

AITAH for leaving my parents just to shorten my commute?

Thanks in advance.