By slowmoqueen • Score: 54 • April 11, 2025 3:44 PM
Hi so.. I'm (22F) living in a small two bedroom apartment with a roommate also (22F) I've known since college. We get along fine, have pretty different schedules, and generally just do our own thing, I'm super comfortable at home, I'll wear shorts, crop tops tank tops sometimes even just a big T-shirt and underwear when I'm in my room or going to the kitchen real quick.
Recently, my roommate's Girlfriend (23F) has been spending a lot more time over. Like she's here basically every day, and sometimes even when my roommate not. I don't mind, but I'm starting to feel like I have tiptoe around my own place.
The other day I walked into the kitchen in a big sleep shirt and no bra (nothing showing just comfy), and she was there making herself coffee. Later that night, my roommate confronted me and said I need to start being more mindful of what I wear when she's around. She said I was making her uncomfortable and it's "not appropriate" to walk around like that when we have guests.
I told her I wasn't doing anything weird I was just existing in my home. And if she's uncomfortable, maybe she shouldn't be over so much? She said I was being defensive and acting like I want her attention, which honestly pissed me off. (And I'm okay with gay people but I'm not soo...)
It's my apartment too. I pay rent just like she does. Do I really need to change how I dress in my own space because her girlfriend has eyes?
So... AITA?
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