She has had an upset stomach for a couple days and is struggling with that. She expected me to respond to her by asking her what she wants to do for dinner. I thought she was just making another complaint about her stomach. I argued that she should have brought up dinner if dinner is what she wanted to talk about. She says I should have been the one to bring it up because the statement 'I'm hungry' is a plea for help and designed to make someone notice what their needs are.