My wife and I have a 3yo son together. A few days ago I was on a work trip and my wife had to go to work and our babysitter was sick. I told her to just leave our son with my sister.

She complained at first but then agreed to do it. I told my sister and she said she is free that time and can do it.

I decided to call my sister (at the time when my son was supposed to be with her) and see how my son is doing. She said my wife called and canceled. I called my wife but I know she can't use her phone at work so naturally she didn't answer.

I called my best friend who usually babysits our son and he said yes, our son is with him.

When I returned home I was fuming. I told my wife that she has no fucking right to make decisions without me. I asked her how she would feel if I took our son somewhere and didn't tell her.

She started to cry and apologized and said she just didn't want to argue.

I'm so mad at her that I'm currently staying in my son's room with him.

My friend called and said my wife is very upset that I'm not talking to her. He thinks I'm overreacting and being an ass.