📝 AITA for not telling my ex girlfriend what I tell my therapist

By PayMasRent • Score: 10 • April 13, 2025 2:20 PM


I broke up with my ex girlfriend and have done my best to give her closure by answering certain questions about why I did so; I've met up with her to hear her perspective and comfort her multiple times, I've gotten on multiple phone calls to answer any questions she had to the best of my ability to help her process, as she is someone I care about (just not someone that I saw myself having a future with romantically) and have maintained a friendship with her since. At first this friendship was pleasant, however, time has passed and now she says I owe her to tell her how I've been processing the end of the relationship and specifically asks what I talk about to my therapist regarding this. She says I owe her this and is guilt tripping me for not telling her. I acknowledge that being broken up with is horrible, and I feel guilty about it all the time, and that my behavior isn't perfect and that I've caused her harm. I can see why she wants closure. However, I feel like I've done my best to give this while also maintaining my own boundaries and processing myself. Is it reasonable that she wants me to tell her what I talk to my therapist about to give her more closure? AITA for not telling her what I talk to my therapist about regarding our former relationship?

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