📝 AITA for not telling my mother there was a guy at an all girls sleepover?

By Zynan1283 • Score: 0 • April 27, 2025 1:46 PM


So, for a little background information, I'm Ava (fake name), an overall good kid, a little rough with handling my emotions due to diagnosed autism and ADHD, which is tough with anger issues. I've never had sex or done drugs, drank, nothing. I was at a friend's house for a sleepover this last thanksgiving, it wasn't the actual holiday, but it was a little celebration on a different day. We all had fun and did things like karaoke, board games, I came up with this fun game called "Decoy". Like hide and seek, but there's one hider, one seeker, and everyone else hides, but they make random sounds to throw the seeker off track. If a "decoy" is found, it takes a minute off the designated timer for the seeker to find the hider. Anyways, that's besides the point. There were no drugs involved, the closest thing to drugs was sugar, literal SUGAR. There were 7 people in total, me included; (fake names) Ava, Lily, Nova, Miriam, Kiva, Shiana, Adrian (the guy). One thing that I should mention is Adrian is STRICTLY gay. We're all virgins and never plan on doing that stuff at a young age. I never told my mom because I knew she'd assume I was being bad. She knows I'm not a bad kid and I'm never very sociable. My dumbass decided it was a fun idea to show her a video of my friend's stray inside cats, forgetting that Adrian was sleeping in the shot, even though his face wasn't in the shot, but my voice clearly said, "No (real name), don't move, you're gonna scare (real cats' names) away-…" I explained to my mother that he was indeed at the sleepover, but he was strictly gay and everyone else was girls. No sex was involved, hell, he even got his own mattress because he sprawled his ass on the whole thing. None of us did drugs, none of us did anything bad. My mom always says, "I don't think I can trust you with anything now" when I hide stuff from her. Which is the very exact reason why I don't tell her stuff anymore. So AITA for hiding the fact that there was a gay guy at a sleepover from my mom?

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