This might be long and it's my first post like this so sorry if things don't make sense

I 17m was in a friend group of 4 lest call the rest of them R, P and M .

anyway over the summer we had book a weekend away up the country one as a gift got 2 of our friends us and another group of girls so 8 in total were going. My friend l had to drop out and couldnt come but was still going to pay for his part the rest of the group then gave him shit for that calling him family to try to force him to come spamming him non stop and even tried to get to do it when I asked him about it he was so stressed I apologise for even mentioning it and left him alone. I told the others to do the same they didn't. Then they started talking bad about him when he wasn't there. since that me and P have distance ourselves from them but we still talked nearly daily.

For context I have a strong sense of humour that if taken the wrong way is highly offensive to the person I'm talking to it has landed in trouble before as I talk without thinking. One of the lads R had no problem with my jokes unless they were about him. This annoys me as you have to be about to take the good with the bad he can't. I soon learn that R and M were talking bad about me when I wasn't there however I let it slide cause everybody was under stress from school and given that we are nearly full grown I thought he would talk to me about any real problems (he has done this before). He didn't and once when drinking after a joke he attacked me with a stick while playing pool I wasn't hurt at all do I wasn't too mad. I blocked the first strike and backed off thinking he was joking then he came at me again I disarmed him then then he attacked me with hands. (I am big over 6 foot and over 100kg I play sport he doesn't. I'm not against fighting when I have to but given my size people rarely take my side even if I don't start it. Eg big guy picking on the smaller guy and if I lose weak fat guy. it's not worth it for me). So u tripped him lower him to the ground and sat down. A different friend helped us talk it out and we mad up.

Months later he came at me again this time when he came at me it was over text in the gc with the group. He called me names while I just told him to calm down and to get over himself. It ended when I asked if he was doing this argument in the GC to get attention or because he wanted to start drama (I did also say some bad things). He apologised for doing it in the gc but not for anything he said. The next day he tried to talk to me like nothing happened and I just walked away.

Maybe 1 month ago (3 after the texting fight in the gc) he texted asking why we aren't talking and if we could be friends again. I apologise listed the thing I said above and said I sorry but I don't want to be friends.

Reading this again it seems bias so just to be clear I was making jokes that were offensive I have around him for years. I was also talking to him less and disagring with him more on topics.

Aita?