So when my gf and I organise date nights we love to book a hotel, nice food and a nice cocktail bar. We obviously like to dress up which I obviously love but she has a habit of going all out and buying multiple outfits for each of us to wear and sometimes I just don't like them or I already had an outfit planned in my head. She then goes in a mood and it can kill the vibe a bit. Am I the asshole?