Okay so I am 21(M) and my parents divorced when i was in high school. After the divorce my mom was no longer in our lives and it was just me and my dad.

Fast forward a few years and things are going fine. Then my dad became friends with this woman in his workplace who we will call Abby.

Abby is a lot younger than my dad( he is in his 50s and she is in her late 20s) but they became close friends.

Now obviously I was happy for him that he made a new friend and honestly even if they liked each other romantically or something i would be happy for him. Either way it was fine with me.

Now the issue was that suddenly Abby became a part of everything. I would want to meet my dad to talk about something important and he would drag Abby along. I couldn't call him because he was never free and always on the phone with Abby. It reached a point where he was letting Abby decide how things in our household should be.

Now my issue with Abby was her being rude to me. Maybe because I am the only thing that reminded her of my dad's marriage or something like that. I don't know but she has yelled a bunch of slurs at me and called me names.

She once did it on the phone in front of my dad and he just brushed it off saying she is joking.

Anyways so my breaking point was yesterday. I had been dealing with something personal which i felt like I needed to tell my dad. So i asked him if we can go out to have dinner together or something and can talk about something really important.

So he suprisingly said yes and I went just for him to surprise me by bringing along Abby.

The dinner was awkward with me just wanting to leave. I thought at this point that maybe she likes my dad and stuff like that but she told us that she is engaged to some guy and is gonna marry him. And my dad is fine with it.

So like idk what is going on anymore. My dad and her are probably friends or whatever but it doesn't matter to me. My issue is that she is rude to me and constantly butting in our family business.

So AITA for wanting to distance myself from my dad? Despite him being against it