Update: We just broke up... Told him about the post and he went and sent me an essay of how I didn't care ABT him and that it would be better if we broke up... I will upload a photo in my profile in a sec... I'm speechless ... like wtf bro

I'm (23F) currently living in a one-bedroom apartment that I rent on my own. My boyfriend (24M) has been living with his parents to save money, but recently he suggested moving in with me to "test the waters" before considering a future together.

While I understand his desire to save on rent, I value my personal space and independence.

I proposed that he contribute to the rent and utilities if he were to move in, but he balked at the idea, arguing that since he's already saving money by not paying rent elsewhere, he shouldn't have to pay at my place. He suggested that I should cover all expenses since I have a stable job and can afford it.

I feel uncomfortable with the idea of shouldering all the financial responsibilities, especially since he earns a decent income and has no pressing financial obligations. I also worry about the potential strain on our relationship if we live together without clear boundaries and contributions.

His friends think I'm being unreasonable and that I should be more supportive of his situation. They say it's a great opportunity for us to grow closer and that I'm overthinking things. Partnership should be equitable in all aspects, including finances... Right ???