i have been sleeping over at my boyfriends apartment multiple times already but i have an issue with it and i decided to bring it up and talk about it with him. Basically his bed feels like absolute shit to sleep in compared to mine and i have trouble sleeping when im staying there. It is a sensory nightmare for me. Literally everything about it feels awful. Sheets, pillows, mattress, blanket. Ever since i moved to live alone and i could choose what i sleep on i have had trouble sleeping on most of beds that arent mine because they dont feel as good, i usually dont like the texture of things. Anyways so i was honest to my bf and told him how i feel, and he thinks im being stupid and unreasonable and that im just making excuses to not stay the night at his apartment and to not make an effort in our relationship. And yeah maybe its silly, but i told him that i have made the choice of not sacraficing my sleep, especially since i already have issues with exhaustion and losing sleep doesnt help with it. He thinks im making this way too big of a deal and being lazy because im demanding that either he will come to my apartmen if he wants to spend the night with me, or we will both just sleep in our own beds. Am i being an asshole?