So I'm an artist. I draw a lot, and I draw anything I'm feeling or thinking. I made a drawing in my personal and private drawing notebook of myself from the neck down in a certain outfit. It wasn't anything fancy, just a yellow shirt with hanging plants and text saying "hang in there" and jeans. I wrote wwyw on the sides. It's in a cartoon style, with a lot of exaggerated things, like sharp angular elbows and big titties. I know it sounds weird, but I wanted to try something new, so I did it. I like it, but it's very personal because it's the outfit I wore when I was sexually assaulted by who was my best friend at the time. The WWYW stands for what were you wearing? My other friend found my notebook while I was drawing and made fun of the drawing. She then showed it to a bunch of other people, all of which we knew. They all said they felt violated or flashed, but it's literally just a drawing? And it's obviously not nude or lewd, fully covered. She then kept asking me if it aroused me, probably because she knows I'm a lesbian. I didn't answer because I felt disrespected. I feel upset, but I also know she doesn't know about the backstory. She kept saying my "main focus" was the boobs, but it only looks like that from an outsiders perspective. (Also, why she focused on that specifically? 🤨) Anyways, I wanted to get upset, but part of me knows that it's not necessarily her fault. Am I being sensitive, or should I tell her that it made me upset, and WIBTA if I did?