this is short and simple bc im genuinely curious. basically i dont think saying the f slur is a big deal bc its simply just a word. i know theres history behind it and im not saying ppl should just be going around calling people faggots but i think that if somebody uses the word its not a big deal bc its literally just a word. it doesnt hurt anybody physically and if it hurts them mentally i think they just need to work on themselves bc you shouldnt be letting a word hurt your feelings. nobody should have that type of power over you. (also yes im apart of the community) idk maybe i am the asshole for thinking this way but at the end of the day we're not in the past anymore and it really is just a word imo