Me (16F) and my mum have an ok (?) relationship; sometimes my mum is rlly happy and alright around me, and other times she snaps at the tiniest things and brings up every little problem at once.

Yesterday we came home from the shopping centre and she started lecturing me about how I made my grandma hold a heavy shopping bag (even thought I was already holding more than half of our bags), then she started bringing up how I’m not studying enough, I go out with my friends too much, and I’m always reading on my phone. I kind of got upset and yelled back at her, bc I was annoyed and trying to explain my perspective on things, but then she started crying and saying she must be such a bad mum and that I must hate her because I yelled at her in front of my grandma and made a scene for my grandma to gossip about to our other family members.

What do I do?? I haven’t apologised yet… I’ve been avoiding her since that incident. Pls help!