I tried to befriend my SIL for the sake of my brother but it seems like she hates me. I always try to pick up conversations w her and when we’re face to face she acts like she likes me. But every “family” gathering they’re having is without inviting us. (Me&husband &son) Our parents died a long ago and its almost just like me and my brother in our side of the family. In these events my sil invites her sister and bil and her autn& her family. It’s hurtful for me that she never wants to include us. She never asks about my son meanwhile WE love their little girl and we’re always ask how she is. She claims that she loves us but the facts show otherwise. I know for sure it’s gonna be a family drama that I don’t invite them for the Bday and I wanted to for the sake of my son who loves them. But today I saw another fb post about another family gathering we wasn’t excluded. With a caption like “ we love you all” “Thanks for being here w us” and family and love amd stuff hastags . And It just simply hurts me. It feels like she doesn’t want us in her “perfect” little family. But idk if im gonna be the ah if I don’t include them at the party? Ps.: Sorry if something isn’t totally understandable but English isn’t my native language