I 31F and my husband 30M have been married for 3 years together for 7 years and we have 3 kids and have always been unseparable and basically best friend, never spent a night away from each other our entire relationship. To make a long story short about a year ago I saw my husband had searched one of his co workers on Facebook 20F I simply asked him why he had searched her and I tell this man opened up like the flood gates and just started talking 😡 I hit my knee's as the love of my life had just told me he had been flirting with her at work because he was simply bored and she had ask him to message him and before he knew it was like she was obsessed with him she was calling him, messaging him trying to convince to leave his wife and 3 kids for her and he had told her multiple times he could hurt his wife.First of like WTH dude your almost 10 years old than her and I'm sure that it was one side at this point I'm fuming accusing him of sleeping with her my mind is running 15 trains at once and they are about to collide.I message her and told her whatever she thinks she has going on with my husband it ends today, she sends me a message back and says done never should have happened, but you should know who you're married to your husband messaged me first your husband started this I was just a confused 20-year-old who thought he was going to come in and be my knight in shining armor after all the trauma that my baby daddy had put me through. I told my husband that if you planned on still remaining married to me that he needed to transfer his job and he needed to call his boss and see if he could be transferred to another facility, but before my husband could call his supervisor and let him know the situation and that he needed to be transferred to another facility she went to HR and told HR that my husband has been sexually harassing her and she was a young 20 year old and he was a married 30 year old and in an authority situation and they took her side my husband was not fired but he was asked to resign. Me being me the hacker than I am was able to find the messages between my husband and this said woman even though they used the secret conversation feature on Facebook Messenger I was able to retrieve the messages but the HR department was not interested in hearing my husband's side of the story they took it as he was the one coming on to her he was the one that had caused the whole situation and it was just better that if he did not come back to the facility. This has caused me huge stress I no longer trust my husband I have felt just to the point where I don't know what to do anymore my husband didn't cheat on me but he flirted with this woman caused the situation we had to go through our entire savings of $25,000,it just ruined my everything it crushed me mentally. I was done I was pissed off and I decided I was going to get revenge and about a month ago I ordered a Ouija board online fill the box with salt I found her mother's obituary online that had passed away when she was 13 printed that and a picture of her mother I also printed out a note that said you have been a bad girl (insert here name)slightly burned all three of the papers and placed them on top of the Ouija board in the salt placed them in a a mailing box on the label for the return address I put the address of the cemetery where her mother was buried and the plot number dropped it off in a drop off and mailed it to her address I wish I could have seen her face when she opened the box maybe next time she will think before she tries to mess with a married man his career and his life AITAH was it cruel was it petty or was it justice you decide.