📝 AITA for showing up at my girlfriend’s place at 4am?

By Rhangalord • Score: 2 • April 5, 2025 2:54 PM


So my girl and i have been dating for 2 months long distance and i came to visit her and my friends who live in the same city.

Last night i went clubbing with friends and for the first time ever i lost my phone, id etc.

This has NEVER happened in my life and not having anywhere to go since friends were out and cldnt contact them I went to her place.

Initially she was supportive i know i woke her up but the police also threw me against the wall for asking for help (my country for you) and I was distressed. She helped me contact my friend and supported me gave me plans ideas but in the morning she was so angry.

She said im not 5 years old and how could i lose it. She said that i got too drunk and couldnt handle the drink even though i explained this has never happened before in all my years of partying. I just really needed support and she was angrier with me coz she said my story didnt add up since i said i was robbed but she says how since phone turned up at the police station. She had anxiety issues and was stressed at it all.

I apologised to her but she said she needs space this weekend from me and she adores me and to text her when i get my phone from police (since someone submitted it) but she was pissed off with me so much.

AITA?

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