Husband and I are planning a family vacation and every time we have one I have to sleep in another room because my stepchild wants to sleep in the same bed as her father. (She is 6yrs old). I understand she is a child and children come first but what I don’t understand is why do I have sleep in another room the whole vacation. Last time we went on one I told my husband I wanted him to sleep next to me and his step child can sleep in the next bed beside us. My husband agreed to sleep next to me. When I turned away I heard his child tell him that he can only lay next to me until I fall asleep after that he needs to sleep next to her. I let it slide the whole week while on vacation. When we returned to our home town she wanted to spend the night at grandparents and told my husband to drop me off at our house and meet her which he did. For 1 week I slept by myself and another week I stayed at home alone. Husband told me he would leave early in the morning to see me in the morning then leave and he then would come back that night to tell me good night. After stepchild went back to her mothers I spoke up about the situation to him and how it felt unfair that I had to stay home. side note we dropped her off at his parents house and he told me he needed clothes from our house and asked me to drive him to our home so he could pack a bag, I was so upset that he did not communicate their plan with me before hand and he just said yes so I told him he can walk to our house and back a bag.** when I told him while he’s spending another week at his parents I would be going to my parents and he told me no. Eventually I stood up for myself and he said I hurt his feeling. AITA?

Edit** all I want is communication