So for context i was out driving and listening to music I own a convertible sports car (Porsche 911 992.2) and she calls me wanting to just talk so i asked her if it was urgent to which she said no I did ask again is she sure and said no. The only reason I asked is because I was on a summer roof down drive with music on and was purely vibing. I was roughly one hour from home. After she called I decided to head home to where she greeted me by calling me a rude arrogant asshole because I was doing what I wanted and not talking to her when she said it was not urgent. She continued this act late into the evening and refused to cook, she has cooked every night for the past 3 years we have lived together.

Any advice is welcome