I(25M) have a wedding in Poland of a friend in common. After asking the soon-to-be wife and husband if they had a friend who could host a person and I didn't got news. A month ago, one of the friend who'll go to wedding with the family said to me he could host me in the rented house(he's insanely richer) along other friends. Yesterday told me that her wife asked if I could find an hostel for the whole.trip, when the wedding is in 1.5 weeks. Wife(maybe) wants to have all women in the house andveven him will maybe have to go away. I got angry and told him that they can't change mind after giving me the word, they should have told me way earlier and I can't afford an hostel now as the average for staying a week is 500 bucks in coming easter period which is over my budget. They created the problem and so they should find a solution. He got forth at me "relax young men,don't be so clingy to bucks, andremember you don't have a right to sleep in the rented since I paid for it, if it is so important for you I can pay a room or find someone to host you and me" . I didn't want to cause anymore fights even if I felt hurt and said "okay, if you find a solution, I'm grateful for you".

I don't have rights neither did I pay, but tell me earlier that you're not hosting me anymore... AITAH?