I wanted to clarify that I know my actions were wrong and I will not be putting the age or real names of the people in the situation.

My friend let's call her anna and she and her boyfriend got together around november. They are like a normal couple.They do the hold hands they go out to eat. They had broken up around January or february. She was having a rough time with her feelings and I helped her to heal. About drinking march he Had asked me if I dated him before and knowing my slow ass I did not process what he said and I asked one of my friends that was standing beside me to tell me what he had said. I didn't answer the question by the way. The next day he had gotten my number from one of our friends who I don't know who up until this point. He had started asking me the normal questions.Like how are you and what are you doing. I had kept it in the friend to not ruin the girl code.

A week later on Monday.He had text me saying that "I know we've been talking for a while but I have gotten with somebody else.I'm sorry" After I saw that text, I'm completely blocked him on everything. I had not talked to him in a while. Around a week prior to this, she had found out from I don't know who and she started blowing my phone up with text messages saying, why did you talk to him? Did you hook up with him what the heck? Aren't you supposed to be loyal to your friends? I feel like the question she's asking me are pretty reasonable when you find out your friend has been talking to your ex. She started calling me very rude names and I can't really defend myself in these situations because english does not my first language.(she knows this) She started yelling at me.Complaining that she didn't hook up with my exes.And I shouldn't either because that's what friends do and they don't hook up with their friends' ex's. She didn't give Give me time to explain what actually happened.And if i'm being completely honest I was going to tell her the wrong things I have done and saying that I know my wrong doings. I have had problems with her attitude with these type of things. And I just try my best to understand her side. But with the things that she has been doing. I haven't been really able to understand her from her perspective. About 3 days prior she had saying that our friendship was over and she does not want to see me again.And if she catches me with one of her exes again she will threaten me.

So AITA for talking to my friends ex? Please leave a comment on the things that you know that I've done wrong and something that would really help me. Try to fix the relationship because I had tried really hard to fix it. And she just hasn't put in the effort to do it, which I understand because sbecause she doesn't want a friend that has been talking to her ex.