So just for the record I don't like this coworker to begin with he's kind of annoying and is constantly talking and donkey laughing and it's not just that he's laughing he laughs with his face so it's more annoying to me. But moving on. Yesterday he was like Smile (my name) smile. I then told him to not tell a woman to smile its creepy. He then tried to gaslight me into saying it's the same thing as my boyfriend asking me to smile and is that creepy if my boyfriend, did it? I said no but I love my boyfriend, and he makes me smile regardless. Then today a different coworker who doesn't speak English very well told me to smile (I was concentrating on my charts so I'm not going to be smiling). Thats when the annoying one starts doing his damn donkey laugh and being like she doesn't like it. I went up to the annoying one and said hey drop your pants. He stopped donkey laughing and looked at me weirdly and I was like see creepy. Same thing WITA?

• Side note I do smile if someone comes up to the desk, I smile when I'm talking to patents when the timing is right it's not like I never smile at work