By Neither_Ad_8146 • Score: 0 • April 16, 2025 7:24 AM
I 18 F went out with three friends the other night, 18 F Lucy, 19M Rob & 19 M Connor. Now I myself am a MASSIVE light weight when it comes to alcohol one glass and I’m basically drunk. That night I had three strong margaritas and two shots so safe to say I could barely stand let alone walk. For a bit of context Rob and Connor are twins, and Rob and I have been in a weird slow burn situationship kinda thing for a couple of months now. Basically after getting drinks, only myself and Connor had alcohol Lucy and Rob were both fully sober, we decided we wanted to get Yo-Chi on the way to yochi I was struggling to walk so obviously I was walking slower then usual. On the way there Rob and Lucy ditched Connor and I for about an hour. Being drunk we were obviously more upset the usual and when we ran back into them all they did was smirk and laugh. This made me upset and I just drunkingly yelled stuff you, yes actually stuff you . They then looked back smirked and yelled get home safe and walked away. Now I was upset because Rob had driven Lucy and I to the hangout and some of my things were still in his car . So I messaged him asking of I could get my things out his car before I walked home, I live roughly an 45 minute walk home from where we were. After getting my stuff out his car while still being drunk I walked towards the exit of the car park when he rolled down his window and asked if I was walking, I said yes then he said message me when you get home then. TBH I was a little upset Lucy house is on the way to mine and I know I’m not entitled to someone driving me home but it was a little upsetting that they would both be so willing to let there drunk friend walk home alone at 12am, it’s not something I would personally let a friend do even if I was upset at them about something . Anyway on my way home I messaged Connor who had already left that I was walking home, he immediately responded where are you I’m coming to get you, and he took me home. When we got back to my place we sat talking for a little, about an hour passed and Rob messaged asking if I had gotten home salfey I’ll admit this wasn’t the best or most mature thing I could’ve said but I responded with no I’m still walking and I’m lowkey being followed. He responded with who’s following you and I said idk should I ask for a name. Then later on when he asked I said I was feeling sick and decided to take a break from walking to sit down. I guess in the moment not entirely sober me thought it was a good idea to give him a “scare” which yes I know isn’t the correct thing to do. Also he left me on seen and told someone he did not believe me. However tomorrow I am talking to him about what happened even though I am going to apologise for lying I don’t know how to word that I’m sorry for lying but I also stand by what I said because those things that I said happened are a very realistic possibility and I wanted him to see the principle in the situation. For context this this not the first time he has ditched me, he said after the last time it would never happen again and he would rather chase after me like a crazy stalker then let me walk home alone because he left. Which is also why I got so upset. So aita? How do I talk to this guy? Plz help 😭
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