Hi everyone I’m going to say sorry in advance for keeping things vague I’ve never done this before and think some details will probably make this obvious that this is me so I hope I give all the details. I’m a 17 year old girl and I’m a part of a car club. We have different branches of the group that we usually meet with our local one but for occasions we meet up fully (for example I’m from say the green group and we meet with blue group and pink group etc..) At Christmas we had one of these meets and me and my parents got to know a new couple from one of the other groups and they added us on socials which everyone does. They both seemed really friendly and easy to talk to so I thought nothing when the husband started to message me questions about myself- just the usual like what I studied and stuff. I won’t lie it made me uncomfy but I couldn’t pinpoint why and just thought I was being judgy for no reason but then he started complimenting me and when I stopped responding he upped the comments on my appearance but got the hint when I fully ghosted him. I messaged one of the older girls I’m close with in the group about it and she messaged the lad who runs everything and he was told he wasn’t welcome at meets anymore. We didn’t see him for the next few that were just our branch but there was a joint meet a few weeks ago which the week before he messaged me apologising. I had told him I appreciated it but that he put me in a horrible position with his wife. He then proceeded to ask if I would be at this joint meet and I just told him to stay away from me if they were going. His wife came up to us before he arrived and I just felt so awful seeing her. I felt so guilty even though I know I haven’t done anything wrong. I still have her on socials and she always posts about the things he does for her and how grateful she is for him and I just feel so so bad. I’ve spoken to a few people about this and it’s pretty split as to if I should tell her. WIBTA if I tell her? My parents told me I don’t need the drama I already have so much to worry about already but my friends all say to tell her and that they would want to know. Sorry for the state of my writing I’m just really anxious about this all. Thankyou in advance.