So I think there’s been a bit of a miscommunication between my DIL 30F and I. I just celebrated my son’s 30th birthday with tickets to a really nice restaurant. Well my DIL’s 30th is in 4 months and she said she can’t wait to go out with me on her 30th birthday to a nice restaurant as well. This was something I was only planning on doing with my son.

My DIL has a tendency to think I should always treat them exactly equal at all times. If I buy a shirt for my son she thinks that means she should automatically get one too. She is very good to my son and a very nice and sweet DIL though. Just this one thing that’s a bit annoying about her.

AITA for telling her this was something I was just doing for my son’s birthday?

I could be the AH for not treating them equally on their birthday.