My (22m) EX girlfriend (21f) broke up with me 6 weeks ago after four years of dating, the breakup was heavily influenced by her friends, they convinced her that i'm controlling because i didn't want her to join thier night life activies, they go out to clubs and bars in revealing outfits and they drink alcohol and sleep around so obviously i didn't want her joining them, i tried to get her to change her mind but she was completly closed off and convinced that i'm controlling her and holding her back from enjoying her life, even after that i tried texting her and she just blocked me.

About 10 days ago she unblocked me and sent me a text asking to meet and i told her no and blocked her, i was done with her because she most likely slept with someone else during those night life activies she went on with her friends, yesterday she called me from her mother's number, she cried and apolgized for breaking up, she told me how much she misses me and that she is depressed and has not been eating or sleeping well, i was not suprised to hear that, we had a great, deep relationship for 4 years but she ruined it and now i can't look at her the same way, so i told her to seek help for her depression because it is not my problem and i hung up.

AITA?