This is my first time posting on reddit so let's see how it goes haha: I (14 non-binary) and my partner (13 non-binary) have been dating for 8 months and I know it sounds like a teen romance that wasn't going to last but I honestly felt different about this person than other people in my life and I don't know what to do. At the start of the relationship it was going really well (we don't go to the same school and were introduced by a mutual friend who neither of us now talk to) We were messaging 24/7, always trying to find times to meet up irl since it is about a 20 minute drive between our houses and overall we were super close and it stayed like that for months but the last week or two it changed very suddenly. They stopped messaging me very often and it got to the point that the only messages at all between us was good morning and goodnight texts. I tried reaching out but it would take hours for them to respond or they would leave me on read. I asked if there was a problem and innitially they said no but after a tiny bit of pushing they revealed a couple things that were bugging them which I apologised for multiple times but then nothing changed. I asked again if something was wrong and they said no but I didn't want to push it so I didn't ask any further. When asked about it they said they were just busy and couldn't do much about it but also a couple times mentioned they would be on a FaceTime with one of their friends or just relaxing in the evening so I feel a but skeptical of them being so busy they couldn't even message me once to ask how my day was. My main issue with this is that with my last partner (14 non-binary) they broke up with me by putting alot of distance between us and broke it off over text (even though I saw them almost daily in school) so I have a little voice in my head saying its what my current partner was doing so I brought it up with them and they assured me it wasn't what they were doing but didn't adjust their behaviour which doesn't fill me with much confidence in what they said. That brings us to two days ago when they didn't sent a goodnighy message which we have been doing our entire relationship. When I asked why they said they were at a friends house sleeping over and forgot to charge their phone even though a: they saw my goodnight message and I know they did and b: we BOTH have built in chargers in our phonecases so when I mentioned the case they said they just forgot they had it so those reasons make me think they are lying. They also didn't send one last night either (I know they slept over at said friends house again btw) but I didn't mention it. All of this combined has made me feel like I am not a priority in their life anymore and kinda hurt by what their doing. I sent both goodnight messages btw and good morning messages. That brings us to today where like always I sent a good morning text exept I kept it short. Our usual morning messages go something along the lines of "good morning my love, how did you sleep? Xx" or something but this morning I just sent "morning x" but they just responded as usual with the above example at about 10 am. Since then they have sent 4 other messages saying "heyy" "how are you" "heyy" "I miss you" which I haven't even opened. It is now 2:30 pm and I have been doing stuff all day so I will probably just use their move and say "sorry, I've been busy" but Aitah for not responding yet even though I have had opportunities, Aitah for feeling hurt by their behaviour and what do I do next?