Hey everyone,
So, long story short, I (46M) have spent my entire life working harder, being stronger, and achieving more than basically anyone around me. I grew up hearing how special I was, and honestly, it’s true. I’m smarter, faster, better in every way.

The problem is, recently my son (17M), who I had really high hopes for, started acting like he's just like everyone else. You know, content with a normal, boring life. Friends, school, "feelings" and "community" and all that. I had been grooming him (bad word? idk) to think bigger, to realize he’s destined for greater things (like me).

Anyway, we got into a big fight about it. I might have lost my temper and said some harsh things like “You’re nothing compared to me,” and “Everyone here is pathetic.” I may have also said that everyone in this town, friends, neighbors, teachers, were like bugs to me.

Then things escalated. Some neighbors tried to intervene (some of them have known me since I moved here 20 years ago), but honestly? They made it worse. I shoved a guy into a car. Knocked another dude out cold.

Now my wife (44F) is saying I’m a monster, my son doesn’t want to speak to me, and like... half the town is calling me a "violent egomaniac." I was trying to help them understand their insignificance so they could accept their place peacefully.

I didn’t want to hurt anyone, but maybe they needed to be shown just how much stronger I am? I honestly thought they'd thank me later.

Anyway, AITA?