I (18f) have been dating my bf (17m) for roughly 8 months. I do think of myself as a little jealous when it comes to my bf hanging out with other girls, but I don't stop him from going out, since they all hangout in big groups.

Yesterday, my bf called me around midnight and asked if he could go see a movie with a girl he was talking to on snap. He told me he saw on her Instagram notes that she had no one to go see the new Marvel movie with, so he texted her and asked if she wanted to watch it together. After they discussed the plans he told her he wanted to ask me about it too to see how I felt about it.

He called me and said that he knew it was weird, but explained the situation. I told him it made me feel a little uncomfortable, but if he really wanted to go see it, he can. I also said that I was going to ask my friends for advice about it to see what they said, and he said that was fine.

Additionally, I'd like to add that before he started talking to me, he did have feelings for this girl, however he said that he doesn't anymore. They want to go watch the movie on Friday night.

I trust my bf, which is why I told him it's fine he goes, however I talked to some of my friends, and they all said it was weird. I'm not sure if it's just because they're biased or if this is actually weird. They're reasoning started making me regret telling my bf he could go.

AITAH if I tell my bf I don't want him to go watch a movie with another girl? I don't want to come off as jealous and controlling, but I am uncomfortable with their plans.