I 24/F and my fiancé 23/M are getting married in the fall of 2026 we been together for 2 years. We have a place together and want to have children after we get married. His life long dream is to become a famous YouTuber and content creator. He has grown his subscribers by 160 in 2 months. Which is still small but I’m proud of him for growing slowly. The issue lies that he’s not prioritizing bills and household needs as much as he’s prioritizing his content creation. Our winter bills were extremely high and he left his full time job (they did him dirty). He since gotten a new full time job but took a huge pay cut. My hours were significantly decreased so we took quite a hit within a 2 month span. We been able to make our major bills (rent and utilities and my car payment) I been paying about 85% of the bills and I do 90% of the household chores. But after that we’re left with nothing. I DoorDash on the side to make a little bit for food, gas, and little things for the house. He try’s to push it off to have me go alone in which my response is “these are your bills too.” His cousin 20/M who he “films” with called him up to see if my finance wants to door dash with him and film it to post. He was ready to leave and go do that until I got pissed off. I told him I have a major issue that we’re struggling with bills and it’s a whole fight just to have him come with me to door dash but he’ll go with his cousin because it’s for their channel. I told him if he wants this life of a happy relationship he needs to prioritize me and our house first before filming. Then tonight I asked him if he could do the dishes while I started the laundry, all he did was move all the big dishes out of the sink and onto the counter. His cousin then shows up and they film for 2 hours and even after his cousin left he sat at his desk trying to edit the footage. I started and finished the dishes then made a snarky comment “thanks for doing the dishes, oh wait I did them” he then got mad and stormed to the bathroom. After he got out I told him he needs to grow up or leave because it is not my responsibility to raise him. I tried to explain things nicely multiple times and I wanna support him AITA?