this ain’t really that important but i just wanted to yap. so i (14m) am in a groupchat on discord with a few online friends. quite a few days ago one of my friends, we’ll call him elliot, was joking about being pregnant because his period was late (he’s trans). a second friend, we’ll call her zara, asked us for baby names for elliot’s “baby” and i joined in the joke and suggested simon. she then told me the baby can’t be named simon because her sisters husband is called that and so he’s already taken the name. for reference, i am autistic, and she sounded fully serious to me, so i replied “that’s not… how… it works?… i fear ur not that important” she kept going on about it, upset and eventually said its a joke. i said i didn’t know she was joking and that im valid because if she hadn’t been joking she is NOT entitled to tell someone what to name or not name their potential baby (well, baby ain’t real in this case no shit but yk). elliot said i was being a bit rude and the discussion went on for a WHILE, at some point i expressed that i didn’t mean that she’s not special or important and that everyone is because that’s what they were accusing me of, and that i just meant she isn’t important enough to dictate what elliot could or couldn’t name his baby because she’s not even a family member, but elliot is still mad at me about it and still says i said she’s not special in general which is NOT true. i don’t know, maybe i was thinking too literally about the situation. AITA?