So its my birthday today, and my mom bought me a backpack. my moms had had some previous problems with my backpack (its a light teal bag with many keychains, one of the zippers doesn’t work, and theres a small hole on the bottom), but i wasnt expecting her to get me just a whole new bag. just some more stuff, the bag she bought me has many cool features, but its grey, and i would really like it if i wasnt so obsessed with my current bag. she told me that i WILL use it, and i said that i dont want to, because im fine with my current bag, and i dont like the colour. when i opened it, my dad said that she doesnt think my current bag is good enough, and when i said i didnt want to use it, he said to her that he knew this would happen, and that she shouldn’t have gotten me it. once again, she told me that i will use it, and i said that its a very nice backpack, because it really is, but i dont want to use it. then, she said that me and my dad are always like this (we both get very attached to objects and end up not replacing them until they completely fall apart) and she said that we’re so hard to get gifts for, and that shes not gonna get us anything ever again. now, it may seem like i didnt tell her what i wanted, but i did. i sent her a whole list of things i wanted (most of which are goofy t- shirts) and i even told her upfront what i wanted. i know i probably seem extremely ungrateful right now, but i honestly wouldve been happy with a pack of stickers. i feel like she didnt get the gift for me, but for herself. at the same time, i couldve gone about it better, but i just really dont wanna use it. she has a history of doing this too. she gets me jewelry or handbags, but i dont like wearing them or carrying handbags, or she gets me a replacement for one of my special items. i feel bad for just saying i dont wanna use it like that, but i didnt even ask for it. am i the asshole?

sorry if this is really hard to read, i couldnt be bothered to properly write it :(