Let's play to see if I'm the idiot.

At home we knew for a long time that I had to undergo a minor operation but from which I would have to recover, they opened my gum, cleaned it, put in artificial bone and closed the gum.

My partner said that except for the day he works 24 hours a day, he would take time off from his other jobs to take care of our children between 0 and 4 years old. I assure by my own decision that it was the best.

The appointment was made thinking about his schedule and he complained because it made things a little complicated for him as part of the new managers of the neighborhood community.

I worked on the 23rd and my operation was on the 24th, I wasn't supposed to return to work until the 28th.

He changed his work day with a colleague and went to work on the 25th, took a job on the 26th, changed his next work day from 24 hours to the 27th and was thus able to take another job on the 28th.

When he called me to find out if I was following the instructions, I answered: "No, I have had 6 blows in the operation area, our children are nervous and I haven't been able to take them out because I don't feel well, I haven't even been able to pee." "Disconnect and do what you have to do." "Yes, take care of my children and make a living." He hung up on me.

Later I found out that a colleague had replaced him in the afternoon to go to a neighborhood meeting, he wanted to tell me how it went and I told him "I don't care."

Am I being an idiot?