I’ve been my sister personal therapist for so long, at first it was just a big sister listening to her little sister yapping but now it’s just too much. I shut it down and told her to stop, our relationship was toxic because she would turn everything into an argument and say disrespectful things to me so we don’t talk much.

My sister has not being having a good time since her divorce, on top of that she has to deal with three kids especially one with a disability. Her ex husband, Jeremy. He clearly didn’t want kids in the beginning because he treated them like shit, my sister wanted full custody and he agreed to give it to her. She didn’t think he would actually do it so it was like a battle, she know lives with our mom in her small house.

I understand she was struggling so I offered her some shelters and government agencies that can help her find a house but she was too good for that stuff. My mom is getting old and she wants time to herself but now she can’t have that because she has to take care of her grandkids when my sister wants to go out and get drunk or party, all this too told her to find a job and I even helped her but she rather live off mommy.

That was the end of the road for me, I was sick of her bull so I let her do as she pleased. This morning she called me fussing like she always did, I knew what it was going to be about. She was upset because our mom is telling her to find a job or she will kick her out, I knew it was coming. I could hear her and my mom arguing, my sister didn’t understand that we weren’t telling her something wrong. She told me I should care about what’s going on, but I told her I don’t care if she gets kicked out.