Quite a lot goes on in my life because I have a very weird family, we are so out of the place that we can't make nothing work.

Its insertable that people go through it but you can't put that on other people, my siblings have kids but I don't. My husband and I found out I was pregnant 2 months ago so this will be new to us after failed pregnancy.

My sister has 4 kids with her husband, at this moment their going through a lot. My bil woke up one day and told my sister she wanted a divorce, she told me it was out of nowhere. He should be responsible for his kids but he's not and she hasn't seen him in 2 weeks, on top of that they have a special needs son(Jackson)

He needs more care and attention, the other kids are well behaved so they don't really put stress on my sister. My family has been giving her all the support she needed but it didn't satfiy her, she had a melt down and told me she can't handle Jackson anymore so that's why our mom came to pick him up. She has resources that can help her but she doesnt want that, she just doesn't want Jackson at all.

My sister and my bil were going through a bad spot in there marriage years ago and my sister thought a baby would fix it because she didn't want my Bil to leave. From the time Jackson was born my sister didn't feel that connection with him and when she found out he had autism she really wasn't happy, she said she wanted normal babies and that shocked me. I believe she got to her breaking point because she asked this out of pocket question, honestly I was quiet for the most part because I didn't know what to say.

She asked if I could adopted Jackson, I was not planning on adopting and a child like Jackson needs a lot of care that I don't have the professional for that. I was telling her to calm down and think about what she was saying but she wasn't let me, she didn't back down about the question. I told her I wasn't going to adopt him, I told her to take him to our mom house so she could think properly.