I 26m am in the military our working ours vary day by day I’d say I’m doing at least 60 hours a week (minus duty days which are every 3 days for 24hrs) she works 3-4 days for 12hrs I don’t believe she does enough around the house. I do dishes yard work sweep and mop whenever I’m off work. We’ve gotten into many arguments about she claims I don’t see her doing the work so I just don’t think she does it however every time I’m home I see something that isn’t clean and I clean it. She claims she just “doesn’t have the energy” which I understand but there are times which energy doesn’t matter and things need to get done. AITA?