By Horror-Friendship410 • Score: 0 • April 13, 2025 3:48 PM
I (18f) am pregnant by my boyfriend (19m) we have been together for around 4 months and I am 10 weeks pregnant. Since we got together I’ve know he’s very close with his family especially his cousin who is also pregnant. My bf moved in with me very quick after we got together, are relationship has had quite a few issues already with quite a few arguments surrounding the same things. The last 2 months have been rough between us, he’s very close with his cousin and I don’t mind him going to see her or us going together she’s very nice and I do like her. Recently in the last 2 months he has started going out more I work full time and he is unemployed, I don’t mind him going out but he will leave before I’m awake and won’t come home till between 8-11 pm when he comes home and I ask how his day was he says good or I ask where he’s bin and he won’t tell me, if it’s my day off we will be sat there spending time together and he will get up and go out won’t even say that he’s going somewhere he just leaves. We have had many arguments and disagreements about it as he has missed doctors appointments and other important things. When it come to it if I call him and say that I need his for some reason he will moan and complain about it but if his cousin calls him he goes even if it’s just that she doesn’t want to walk to the shop not even a 10 minute walk from her house. I work full time and he is unemployed and we live with my parents, he doesn’t seem to want to get a job and has hardly tried and he only applies for jobs after we have had disagreements. He got fired from his old job around 2 months ago and has had 1 job interview since and has only applied for 7-8 jobs he has worked since he was 14 years old, I don’t give him money as I am trying to save as I won’t get maternity pay bc I haven’t worked there long. I’ve tried sitting down with him to talk about how I feel about it and no matter what I say he turns it back on me and makes me feel bad for wanting to have a conversation about it, he doesn’t seem like he’s trying in the relationship.
AITA for wanting to break up with him?
Sorry it’s long and a bit all over the place and might not make sense. I just need some advice and opinions
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