My 29M wife 29F and I have a 1 year old.

She’s very much a morning person and I’m a night owl.

She’s in bed by 9PM every night and is up at 5-6AM.

My ideal sleep schedule is in bed by 12PM and up by 9AM.

Our daughter usually wakes up at 8AM.

I work in tech as a SWE and make enough to allow her to be a SAHM.

I do feel bad some days for not getting up and helping out, but other days I think to myself that these are the roles we chose. Me as the provider and her as the caregiver.

I also WFH so I’m able to help around the house with little things during the day.

I do my share of caregiving; diaper changes, baths, etc.

I really wish I was a morning person but no matter how hard I try, I just end up being miserable and tired throughout the day. It’s something I’ve struggled with since middle school.

AITAH for not helping out in the mornings?