By Elegant-Library-4607 ⢠Score: 2 ⢠April 11, 2025 1:27 PM
Ok, so Iām 17 and Iāve been fat for nearly my entire life. Just last year I started exercising more and eating less and I lost quite a lot of weight. Iām no longer overweight but some belly fat remains that I want to get rid of. However, my mom took notice of my appearance and told me that I look āskins and bonesā, I do not. At first she just told me to eat more and to stop āstarving myselfā but I ignored her and continued working out and eating less. She didnāt like that and we had an argument over my eating habits. She now keeps looking at my food and forces me to add more because itās too little (itās more than enough). I kept telling her itās too much but she wonāt listen and keeps telling me that what Iām doing is unhealthy. We had another argument when she caught me skipping breakfast. Iām noticing that Iām gaining fat again and started eating less in secret and even star skipping breakfast a few times. Well, my mom caught me skipping breakfast one time and we had a very bad argument. My mom told me that I donāt know what Iām doing because Iām a kid and repeated that Iām starving myself and that Iām not fat. The argument went so far that she told me that if Iām starving myself that I should just kill myself since Iām killing myself by not eating right. I know she didnāt mean that but I thought itās a bit too far and honestly broke my heart. My mom also has a failing heart and canāt be stressed so I usually canāt properly argue back without making her even more mad. Now I canāt even eat in secret because she always takes a look at my food and gets mad when I donāt show her. She even told me to stop exercising everyday and only for two days a week. I just want to lose weight and fat to get my dream body and my mom is actively impeding my progress. She keeps telling me that Iām too thin which isnāt true. I fear that Iāll be fat again at this rate but I canāt just argue back or else I risk her health. Any time I try to talk about it peacefully she would just restate her points and get angry that Iām not following her. She keeps saying that Iām just a kid that doesnāt know any better and should just listen to her. I even tried to tell her to let me see a doctor instead but used CHATGPT to find an answer, telling it that she wants me to gain weight and what to do. I tried asking her to ask it if itās healthier to lose weight but she told me thatās not needed. For the record Iām around 63 to 64 ish kg and at around 5ā8. Not overweight anymore but again I still have belly fat. So, AITA and what should I do?
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