It’s mainly my mother in law but fil is also annoying in his own controlling and know it all way.

My mil has been passive aggressively rude, demeaning, condescending, and horrible to me for the past 7 years. I did nothing to her but date her son and be myself. We’re assuming she expected me to be one way and I was the opposite type of person. A clash. The second to the last straw was when i was pregnant with my first born. She asked her son if he was sure the baby was his. This is because she was convinced i was cheating. The last straw was her never coming around my first born because i confronted her about what she said about DD not being her sons (along with many other things she’s said and done). Fast forward to 2 and a half years later and i just gave birth to my second child. We are also about to move to another state and so, mil has decided to turn a new leaf. She has not apologized to me, but she has started to come over to visit our children. She’s not treating me as she was before (although we don’t really interact much). I’m livid. I don’t want her anywhere near my children. I don’t trust her because of how she treated me. I hate that she gets to have a relationship with my children knowing that she interfered with me trying to have a relationship with her son. Everyone including my partner wants me to move on and let this all go. But I’m just not ready to. I want justice for the things that happened to me. My partner is “family oriented” and believes strongly in “it takes a village..” but i don’t want his parents in my village. We may split up because of this. I’d hate for that to happen to my family because i don’t like or want his family around my children. But i am also very passionate about protecting my kids from them. AITAH???