So this is very silly compared to the rest of the things on here, but I feel like I crossed a boundary. Me (24F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been dating for a year and a half. He is extremele calm and quiet, and I am very loud and chaotic all the time. When we started dating, we introduced each other to our respective friends, and I became very friendly with his best friend, routinely checking up on him, giving him relationship advice as well.

The three of us, along with a few common friends had gone on a summer trip last year. We planned on one this year as well, around June. I didn't really want us to go to DC specifically because of the kinda scary situation right now. But my bf's best friend was hell bent on going to DC. A few of us suggested Rhode Island, but he just said that he'll only accompany us if we went to DC. So, I agreed, since my fears were definitely exaggerated and unrelistic. Now we had been going back and forth on trying to decide a date for when all of us can go. He was caught up in something or the other almost every weekend, and he kept changing dates. We tried to accommodate that, since we love his company.

Now, the other day, he just simply called my boyfriend up and said that since no one else is taking the trip seriously, he'll just go to Miami with some of his other friends that offered, and that we are welcome to join him. I confronted him and was kinda stern to him on the group chat. He said I hurt his feelings since he is single and he doesn't have a personal life, so he was really looking forward to the trip, and we weren't taking it seriously. I tried to point out that being PhD students, we don't have too much time to constantly think about the trip, and we tried to do as much as possible. My boyfriend didn't say much, but when I asked him what he thought, he said he didn't think I did anything wrong because he felt a little bit angry when his best friend said that as well. But I have kinda been feeling like I crossed a line yelling at his best friend. My boyfriend, being extremely non confrontational, will probably never confront me for it, but I have a habit of confronting people when they piss me off. I'm scared that this time I might've done something irreparable. AITA? Can this be undone