So I (18M) hit a rough patch and needed a place to crash for a couple weeks. Nothin long term, just till I get my stuff together. Thought I’d ask my older sister (28F) since we been close, figured she’d help me out.

She says she gotta check with her husband first, which I get, it’s their house. But then she tells me, “Sorry, he’s not cool with it.” That’s it. No explanation, no trying to figure out something else, just a straight up no.

I got really mad and ended up yelling at her. I said somethin like, “So you’re really gonna choose your husband over your own brother? Your own blood?” She just got quiet and said, “I’m not gonna argue with him about it” then hung up.

Now she’s not replying to my messages, and some family members are sayin I overreacted, that I shouldn’t have yelled or tried to make her feel guilty. But I feel like she totally let me down. I wasn’t asking for much, just a couple weeks to get back on my feet. I don’t party, I don’t smoke, wasn’t gonna cause any trouble. It just hurt that she didn’t even try to help me a little. Am i overreacting?

UPDATE: i called my parents and i said sorry, they was mad at first but now they let me stay at their place, not talkin to my sis right now but at least i got somewhere to sleep, still sucks but whatever.