Me female(12) and my mom(36) don't spend a lot of time together because she works at a preschool and gets home around 6:30 to 7:00. When she gets home she loves it when I come and open her door for her and say hi, and then I let her have 30mins to an hour by herself. (My dad isn't in the picture so it's just me my mom and my brother) After I give her some time she tells me that she will play a game of uno with me every otherish day but she almost always ends up taking forever to get downstairs and when she finally does she starts to make a video for her insta. When she does I get bored and start thinking looking not noticeably sad but she assumes I am because she knows that I was waiting for ever for her. Bit she decides to get mad at me for not hanging out with friends at 8:30pm and says the she's not here to entertain me all of the time which she doesn't, and she's always complaining when I ask her to spend time with me. As i was writing this my mom came to my room and started scolding me saying i was being petty as i was apologizing so that she would just stop. Am I the a hole? (Sorry for writing it weird)

Thank you guys for the advice and yeah sorry I'll get off of reddit ☺️