By External-Air-2064 • Score: 2 • April 22, 2025 1:22 AM
I 20f was having a conversation with my dad 50m. He asked me out of the blue when I planned to move out and I told him “I’m not sure. I’m trying to find a better job and I’m looking at going to college.” I’m what my mom calls her boomerang child because I’ve moved out and moved back a few times. I moved back this last time to take care of my dad even though I’ve never had the best relationship with him. He and I argue frequently and he likes to throw in my face that when I was 12 I used to tell him that I hated him for not being in my life for almost 11 years. Well the topic came up that I need to get my car fixed. It’s been broken since October and it’s one of the main reasons I agreed to move back to take care of him. I was going back and forth trying to get my sister’s baby daddy to come over and run a theory my dad’s buddy gave him and he said he’d come when he had a chance. I mentioned to my sister that I was waiting on them to let me know when they could come over to look and she said she had been waiting on me to tell them when I was free. I told her they could come look anytime they wanted and that I got off work at 6 most days. I then brought it up to him about a week and a half ago and he said he wasn’t going to do it. My dad keeps putting the blame on me that my car is broken and we can’t figure out why it won’t start. I told him that it’s not my fault that my sisters bd gave me the run around for months acting like he was going to do it and then not doing it. I kept trying to argue that point with my dad in a very calm manner and he wasn’t listening to me. I stormed off before I got too upset because I’ve been working on my anger problems. As I was leaving my dad said “don’t leave and don’t get upset.” I get my anger problems from my dad so you’d think he would understand. My mom texts me as I’m driving home and said “just breathe, he means well.” I told her “he may mean well, but he doesn’t listen. He doesn’t get it.” AITAH for storming off and going home in order to cool off before I snapped in front of my parents friends?
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