📝 AITA I (25f) got upset at my friend (23f) for wanting to change dates for something we planned back in December?

By Interesting-Metal902 • Score: 2 • April 9, 2025 3:58 AM


So me and my friend wanted to see a stand up comedy show in April, so we purchased tickets back in December. I was so excited for it, but this week she told me, we should change the dates, to a weekday. We had planned to see him on the weekend. She came across a showing for a weekday, which she said would work better for her. I would have been ok with it but I’m a busy person with work and such, one of the reasons she wanted to change the dates was for another one of her friends to attend. Again I would be fine with this but she put the whole process of selling the tickets on me, but the tickets are weird and even though I paid for them I wouldn’t get the real tickets till the day before(I think it’s to stop reselling). The whole thing was really stressful because of my schedule changing and having to rethink work and move things around. But after all that she just went back to the old plan and, I kinda don’t want to go anymore if she’s doing it just because it stressed me out. Like I’ll still go just kinda put a damper on the whole event. So am I the asshole for not really not wanting to go anymore?

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