I (24F) and my boyfriend (27M) have been together for three months. It's been an amazing relationship so far, we've had our ups and downs. he is always there for me and we have been talking about settling down and having children together.

However, when I checked his phone, (we do this to gain trust) last night after I couldn't be bothered getting mine out from my pocket, I noticed that he was getting notifications with love hearts???

He tried to explain to me that there were fictional characters character AI, but I was shocked at the messages he was sharing with the AI. They were sexually explicit role plays, and the characters were responding to him in the same way. It’s obvious he preferred to get off to that rather than to me.

Here’s the thing: our sex life has not been great lately. And now I realize why. He was getting off to fantasy conversations with bots instead of being intimate with me.

I broke up with him on the spot and he called me "paranoid" and "delusional”. He said that I was overreacting and that he has a right to get off to anything as long as it’s not to someone else, I told him it was someone else! Cause he was getting off to the fantasy of those characters!

AITA?