I (21m) have been renting an apartment with a girl (24F) since June of last year. I wouldn’t say we are buddies or friends just roommates who are more than cordial.I have a really low social battery and I prefer to be in my room playing my guitar or listening to music or just napping. My roommate on the other hand is pretty social and has friends over in the apartment every other day. I guess Im on good terms with them just say hi and bye if i run into them nothing really deep. I occasionally come out when they are around and play songs on my guitar (at their request and choice of song). The real issue is one day while I was in my room (I assume she thought I was napping) I overheard her sorta bashing me to her friends for being a loner and a weirdo. I get it i guess Im a loner since I don’t go out much and stay in my room but i doubt I’m a weirdo. Then she brings up the fact that I can cook better than her and somehow thats a turn off since it makes me too feminine? This is ironic considering shes always asking for parts of my cooking whenever I do cook and so do her friends when they are over (again I don’t mind and i do enjoy cooking for others I used to cook with my mom and aunt). At this point I heard one of the guys actually stand up for me( I guess she and her friends had their partners over too?). Anyways they all eventually left around 8 or 9 pm as usual and I come out at around half past 10 and ask her why she was bashing me casually which ended up blowing up into a argument and me deciding not to cook for her anymore (her friends are welcome to ask though). Either way we both went to bed mad at each other and we still are I guess? Her friends still come over and hang and I stick to my room or go out to the nearby gym. I came back around 4pm (left the apartment before lunch) and walked in on her bashing me again calling me a unloveable weirdo and apparently I’m too skinny and feminine (Il admit I’m skinny at 5”11 and 128 pounds but i do hit the gym constantly and i am toned but i wear baggy clothes since I like being comfy and I don’t go out much with my low social battery) When I walked in she looked at me and gave me a look that just said “I don’t care if you heard” but at this point I really don’t care and just went to my bedroom and Im sitting here typing this.

Extra context: -I moved here alone for college and nearest family is about 14 hours away by car -never had issues with her before that Im aware of -all my friends are in my home town -I’ve been on dates but I’m not sleeping around and Im casual since I don’t wanna take relationships seriously right now since I’m young and rather focus on studying to be a nurse

So would I be the a hole if I left? Or should I stay till this school year is over and then move out?

(Yes we split all bills)